Sunday, October 25, 2009

Sunday Sorrow on Mellow Yellow Monday


Cloudless sky
Gentle Breeze
Warm sun kisses my arms
The rustle of dried leaves
Creates music in the air.

Sunday morning was filled with possibilities. The quiet of Borders was just right at opening. The vacuum purred; books and gift items rolled out in carts onto the sidewalk and into the entryway; the coffee was hot and delish.

I managed to read my way through the eight pages of assigned reading for my Monday night class and tucked in a phone call to my sister in between. Good news and not so good was shared and soon enough the call to head home sirened in my mind.

The sun felt so good on my arms as I walked to my car. The air smelled so fresh and the breeze tickled. I was ready for a good rest of the day. But . . .

. . . a call arrived that turned the peace of the day upside down. Two tight families are suffering twin tragedies. Krista's mil-to-be suffered the sudden and unexpected loss of her much loved brother, Ernie. Suddenly family was pouring in from throughout California and Arizona. No sooner was that known then Chad's (Ernie's nephew and Krista's beau) best friend's father was also felled by a stroke. Two strokes. Two family men. One weekend. One death. And one, Tony, fighting for survival in Georgia (where he was visiting for a few days).

How does one cope with such sudden and striking catastrophe? Two families, both so tightly intertwined together. Ashley, Tony's daughter, is like Krista; a presumed to be future daughter-in-law when educations are completed and two brothers (Chad and Chandler) are settled. And Anthony, best friend to Chad and Chandler.

I feel all this from a distance, connected through Krista's love for Chad and her closeness to Ashley and her family and our own respect and good feelings for these families. I can't help thinking about how hard and confusing life is going to be for these people for a while.

Please remember Ernie and pray for the repose of his soul. Also please pray for Tony that he will recover and in quick time be able to return home. And remember their families, so closely intertwined with ties of love and friendship.

10 comments:

Sheress said...

Sorry to hear this news a prayer will be said for both of these families. Your picture captures a moment of silence and friendship. May love and friendship continue to intwine these famlies.

Nice work with your picture.

Stephanie V said...

Families that are so close will support each other through this sad time. They are like the tree: strongly rooted with a trunk to lean on.

Regina said...

Sorry to hear the sad news.

Great words and lovely photo!

Have nice week Annie.

Stine in Ontario said...

Life is so fragile, isn't it? So sorry to hear of your friends' tragedies..

Meanwhile, the photo of the yellow tree is beautiful

swallowtail said...

Knowing that we are all connected, and remembering God's love is eternal, I will hold them all in prayer.

I guess that we want for our daughters and sons to have "smooth sailing," and I know that I for one, hold it kind of personally when they, too, bump over the speed-bumps on the path. Stephanie V's, words are so gentle and wise.

Who's to say this isn't "smooth sailing...?" Their close families support and love one another now and always... what a teaching!

Beautiful and thought-provoking post, Annie.
Thank you.

His Unfailing Love said...

beautiful picture. I love it!

Nedekcir said...

Sad. Prayers going their way.

BTW, I love the yellow with very green background.

Jeanie said...

Annie, I'm so sorry I didn't read this till today. Certainly my prayers are with you and all your family during what has to be a tremendously challening and difficult time.

miss*R said...

will put them into my prayers today
so much tragedy happening right now.. is there more tragedy than normal or is it because we are all so closely connected via the internet that we hear more?

I am off on our adventure through Tasmania... leaving the laptop behind to escape internet madness but my rosary beads are packed ;) ...'see' you when I get home xo

Sandy said...

I'm so sorry to read this Annie.